20 January 2012

The community of other mothers

I found this article linked through another blog I frequently read. It struck many chords. It still amazes me how mothers can all be so different, and yet there is something more universal, more transcendent than I ever imagined about motherhood. Other mothers just get it. They find words that just sit on my tongue. Here is another example:
 
Dear mother of only one child, don’t blame yourself for thinking that your life is hard.  You’re suffering now because you’re turning into a new woman, a woman who is never allowed to be alone.  For what?  Only so that you can become strong enough to be a woman who will be left.

When I had only one child, she was so heavy.  Now I can see that children are as light as air.  They float past you, nudging against you like balloons as they ascend.

~ Simcha Fisher, To the Mother With Only One Child

1 comment:

  1. I read that article too! It made me feel so much less guilty about thinking things are hard sometimes. It was a refreshing take on motherhood...

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